Relationships are dying because many are dating the attraction not the person – Lady

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    A lady has blamed the difficulty many relationships run into nowadays on the continued love for the quality that attracted them to one another instead of loving the whole person.

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    Attraction precedes almost every sort of relationship and forms the bases for building even stronger ties.


    But netizen Hayo Mide has observed that, instead of people using attraction as the bricks to build something that’s long lasting, they never really take that extra step.

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    She posits that due to this, many relationships soon hit the rocks because the Foundation is weak and built only on attraction which is often volatile and short-lived.

    Many of us are dating the attraction and not the person, that’s why the relationship is hard” she wrote.